Being the youngest of all my paternal cousins by miles - my oldest cousin was 40 years old when I was born - I was always on call at weddings to be the little flower girl or the child who handed over the lucky horseshoe to the happy couple. In fact I had that role for the weddings of the two sons of that oldest cousin, in 1961 and 1962 respectively. For one of those 'jobs' ( I can't remember which) I received a gold locket, which I have to this day. I then seemed to wear it anytime I was a flower girl, including my sister's wedding in 1965. So for me this locket symbolises the fact I was the baby of the family trotted out at family weddings!
At the moment my daughter is wearing two gold rings. A small heart shaped one, which used to be mine when I was young, but which no longer fits me, and a more intricate custom designed one. This one was made from my mother's plain gold wedding band for my daughter's 21st birthday. Her gran died when she was 8 years old, but she remembers her and this ring is a permanent reminder of the gran she loved.
My husband's paternal grandmother, Janina Ciupka, was born in 1902 in a small town, Nieszawa, north of Warsaw, Poland, on the banks of the River Vistula. She was the youngest of 12 children, only 8 of whom survived to adulthood. At this time Poland had been occupied by their three neighbours, Germany, Russia and Austria and Warsaw was under Russian control. Her family were very wealthy, owning granaries, bakeries, brick factories and carriage factories and they also bred white horses for the Russian Tzars. As with her elder siblings, Janina was taught by a private governess and the family had many servants, including cooks and cleaners. She obviously was leading a very privileged life. There was little known about the period of her life from about 1909-1919, The family had moved south eastwards to Haczow around 1909. The reasons for the move seems to have been a combination of business and politics, as Haczow was under Austrian rule, considered more liberal than that of the ...


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